Dharma, Fate, and the Journey of Life

Fate is not something written by an external force; it is the path we choose to walk. Each person’s journey is unique, shaped by the paths they’ve traveled and the experiences they bring. Our choices create our fate, and this entire journey can be seen as dharma—a path we may stray from but inevitably return to, time and again.

Layers of Dharma

Dharma manifests on multiple levels in life. First, there’s personal dharma, unique to each individual. Then, there’s dharma within the family, and beyond that, dharma in service to society. Finally, there is a universal dharma, a role we fulfil simply by existing. Nothing we experience is a coincidence; rather, every detail is part of our dharma. Each choice, every act, aligns with a larger cosmic process, expressing the universe’s workings through us. Right now, you are in the space you are meant to fill, embodying a unique role in this vast cosmos. Even our inner resistance or restlessness plays a part in this dharma. These traits are roles we can choose to embrace or challenge. Importantly, dharma does not mean we are bound by our current options; we can break free, “wake up” from our limited perceptions, and choose from endless possibilities.

 

Why Am I Here?

This question of purpose is tied to our natural tendencies, strengths, and interests—qualities accumulated over time, forming our personal “materials.” These materials guide us on our paths, enabling us to serve and express ourselves. True fulfillment arises as we engage these qualities, moving closer to our essential selves and purpose. Dharma, however, can waver when faced with fear or doubt. The tension lies in the uncertainty of where our choices will lead. But moments of growth, when we surpass previous limits, bring deep, lasting joy (known as saadya), a satisfaction deeper than fleeting pleasures. If we feel inner discord or struggle, it’s a sign that something may be missing from our path. Recognizing why joy is absent in those moments can offer clarity. Often, tension stems from attachment, desire, or fear.

 

Duty and Embracing Your Calling

Another aspect of dharma is duty. If we are called to a specific role—be it a teacher, warrior, or healer—fulfilling that calling is essential. Yet, resistance can keep us from realizing our potential, as we question our path and our decisions. Life can slip by while we wonder if we’re doing the right thing. The process of manifestation requires us to embrace all aspects of life equally, without judgment. Constantly questioning whether an action is “right” or “wrong” can be limiting. Seeing your dharma requires self-awareness, a practice that extends beyond superficial choices. Samadhi, or enlightenment, is the possibility of seeing oneself clearly, recognizing our role in the larger scheme, and understanding our connection to the universe. In essence, dharma is about finding alignment with our true purpose and embracing the journey with clarity and equanimity.

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